Brhorses...7 years ago I went through the exact same thing. I had a lump in my throat. I went through the needle biopsy. They could not tell if the lump was cancerous or not. They removed the left side of my thyroid. I was in the hospital for 2 days. While there they did a biopsy of the lump. THANK GOD it was not cancer. Just a rather large goiter (sp?). I now have a 3 inch scar on my throat...most people do not even notice it unless I point it out. I do have to take synthroid everyday for the rest of my life, since removing half of my thyroid. But I would much rather have to take a pill then have to deal with what the alternative could have been.
I know that we do not know each other, but if you have any questions, just pm me. I would be more than happy to pass on any of my knowledge to you. I know exactly what you are going through...I'll be thinking and praying for you. All will be all right!!!!