I feel for all of you!!! I too have a large/wide butt and sort of small waist for my size. So finding jeans to fit is impossible. They are either too big in the waist, too low for my wide butt, too big of bell bottom, etc. Also, NO ONE carries women's sizes in any type of jean. My body style is to where I have to wear the women's sizes in order to fit my wide butt. So no one makes them roomy enough in the seat and smaller in the waist. SO, I have to go to Wal-Mart and buy the Faded Glory 16W straight leg stretch jeans. I have never found any Wrangler, Cruel Girl, Rockie, Levi, Outlaw, etc. that go large enough without the huge opening at the bottom. Ariat carries larger sizes, but the bottoms are way too wide and practically cover my feet.