If you were looking at General Discussion today you saw that I was bragging on Ben about his great Dentist visit. He is still doing all the things I have discussed before, putting up clean dishes, washing his clothes (it is so funny, he has figured out that it is easier to push his dirty clothes basket to the laundry room than carry it and I just applaud him!!!!!! I love it when he innovates and generalizes on his own), picks up dirty dishes around house (new one) and etc. BUT, the important thing in all of these activities is he is starting to problem solve without prompting or comment. If he sees a dish wont set right in the cabinet he adjusts it. He is learning all the little steps in putting a jacket on and socks and soooooo many other daily things that we take for advantage. As his speech therapist put it, he has developed "object permanence" and realizes that it is there and has a place in his world.
I AM VERY EXCITED!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He hasnt fussed as much the last few months, doesnt get frustrated with us as much and is SO much more compliant. And he FINALLY understands "1st - then"!!!!!!!!!! I can get him to do lots of things with that. LOL He is picking up little skills on a weekly basis and it is kinda cool to see that he is trying really hard to win my approval in everything. And believe me when he does just a little, I reward BIGLY and it is amazing how that has also made such a difference. He is so smart. I so wish and hope that one day he will realize he can use things to verbally communicate with us. I feel more and more every day that I will actually see that happen now. For yrs I doubted but hoped, now Im seeing the edge of it happening on a large scale and it makes my heart pound hard to talk about it because I know he is close.
There are some therapies that Im considering in the next couple of yrs and I have big hopes for them also, stem cell and hyperbaric chamber therapy. Ive been watching it develop and talking to people that have had it done with their children and there are some amazing results. Time will tell. Meanwhile we will keep forging ahead.
Please continue to keep Benjamin in your prayers.
