Prayers for you, Destry, in this very trying time. You sure had your priorities straight when you stayed with your loved one. Anyone who doesn't understand that isn't worth the time and effort you gave them. I agree with Tysh....those people who posted those rude, immature comments on BHW need prayers and counseling. They must be very miserable people. Take them with a grain of salt and keep your chin up. You have nothing to explain to anyone.......you did the best you could under the circumstances, and more then most people could have done. Wishing the best for you and your family.